Uncertainty about the Future


Hello everyone, how are you doing?

I was overwhelmed with the influx of responses on my Instagram poll in favour for writing about the topic ‘feeling uncertain about the future.’ Recently, I have spent a copious amount of time reflecting which led to me think about life and the coming years.

Take this analogy; our lives are like journals, and each day of our lives represents a new page in the journal. We enter the world as fresh, new canvases, yet to experience a memory or complex emotion. As we grow older and time progresses, our insights are broadened from opportunities and experiences, as each memory is etched onto the white pages of the journal. One by one, another day passes, and another page is filled to mould the story which is your life. But when you first buy the journal, you can’t possibly predict what the pages will read, and that’s okay.

Many of us feel the pressure of life from time to time. We are frequently exposed to the successes of others through social media’s feeds, which are crammed with celebratory graduations, new jobs, promotions and high grades. Everybody appears to have a plan; everyone seems to have a future job secured and their whole life organised. Although it’s great to celebrate the success of others, we fail to recognise that social media often only presents the highs of people’s lives, causing us to forget that we are not alone in feeling uncertain and worried about the future. When I ask people ‘have you always known this was the career you wanted to do?’ the answer most of the time is ‘no.’ Even when I asked those who have just graduated from University ‘what career do you want to end up in’ or ‘what’s your next plan?’ most people respond with ‘I don’t know.’

Whether you feel worried about the next stage in life, or what you want to be, it is completely natural to feel this way. When I experienced a phase of uncertainty during my final year of University, I began to worry myself as I wasn’t sure what the next chapter in my life was going to be. However, I learnt to change this feeling of uncertainty into a positive experience and began to implement habits to solve the problem. I changed this negative feeling into a positive experience by dedicating time to search for work experience and opportunities which appealed to me. I also considered practical questions such as ‘what type of career do I envision myself to be in?’ Through involving myself in different opportunities and experiences, I discovered things about myself which have helped me find direction for the coming year. It didn’t happen overnight, but I hope this reassures you that things do fall into place. Through independent research, reaching out to people, organisations and companies, I learnt more about myself and my interests, which led to opportunities that suited to me. However, remember that It is okay to not know what the next stage in your life will be – life has a weird way of unfolding sometimes.

I hope this reassures you and I hope you’ve enjoyed reading. Don’t forget to subscribe to be notified when I post!

Have a lovely week!


Lots of love,
Somewhat Perfect xxx

Accepting The Highs and Lows


Hey guys, how have you been doing?

I think it’s safe to say that Spring is most definitely approaching – the air feels crisp and the evenings are lighter. Colourful dots have begun to blossom amongst the green canvas of grass, whilst white wispy clouds swirl through the light blue sky, delicate and fluffy. Each morning, I have been going on runs. It allows me to absorb the surroundings and appreciate the smaller things in life we sometimes take for granted. It also helps declutter my mind and sets the tone for the day, in which I return home with clearer thoughts and a calmer vision for the day ahead. It’s really helped me stay calm, particularly during this weird time. Today, I want to provide some reassurance about the current situation, and hopefully encourage you to accept how you are feeling, because I’m sure we are all experiencing up and down phases at the moment – which is totally okay.

Take this scenario. You wake up one morning, your mood is flat, you feel lazy, Netflix sounds too tempting to resist so you stay in bed and wear pyjamas all day.

Sound familiar? *Currently raising my hand*

This post is a little reminder that ‘off’ days are okay, and you are not alone if you are finding this time difficult. It can be challenging to stay positive all the time, particularly when we are repeatedly reminded of everything that is occurring around us. This is a time of change and uncertainty where we are restricted to the four walls of home, with many of us having to adjust to different living dynamics and new routines. Things at the moment are different, so of course not every day will be easy – it’s only natural to feel that way. It is okay if you wake up feeling down. It is okay to have a day off. It is okay to feel worried or uncertain. These are normal feelings most of us will experience given the current situation. Good days will come, and not-so-good days will go. Remember that this time will pass, we just have to take each day as it comes.

What can help lift your mood?

Obviously, different strategies work for different people, but I’ve been trying to implement a few different activities into my daily routine to keep myself entertained, and to help distract myself from the situation. Simple things such as phoning a friend or spending some quality time with family members are a great distraction. I’ve also been drawing, reading, baking, painting, running, meditating and doing home work-outs for some technology-free escapism. I’ve heard great things about Yoga too – I plan on starting that at some point too!

Although this has been different from my previous posts, I just thought a daily reminder would hopefully help and reassure you that the emotions you’re experiencing during this time are all completely natural and okay. We are in this together and this time will pass.

I hope you’ve enjoyed this post and I hope it’s helped. Have a lovely rest of your day/evening!

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Lots of love,
Somewhat Perfect xxx

How to Boost Your Self-Esteem


Hello lovelies, how are you doing?

Sorry for the less frequent posts recently – I’ve been so preoccupied with University deadlines! However, as we precede to brighter mornings and friendlier weather, we can focus on the positive that Spring is soon to welcome us with a warm smile.

Today, I stumbled across an astounding figure which revealed that 85% of people have self-esteem issues. Although I knew self-esteem problems were common amongst society, I didn’t actually realise the extent of its prevalence. We live in a world surrounded by social media, where we are exposed to an influx of airbrushed and ‘perfect’ images. Careers become increasingly competitive and we often only hear about the successes of others. This can cause us to knock ourselves down, as we habitually begin to compare ourselves to others, which is detrimental to our self-esteem and our wellbeing. Having little confidence is a common feeling we have, but there are most definitely certain things which can be done in order to boost it. It involves a change of mental habit, and it definitely works for me! So today, I am going to share with you a few tips to help you improve your self-confidence, so I hope you enjoy!

  1. Treat yourself as your own best friend
    This is so effective. Whenever you begin to feel that you are putting yourself down, take a step back and ask yourself ‘would I say this to my best friend?’ The answer is, probably not. It’s very easy to become self-critical, and we end up telling ourselves things we would never dream of saying or thinking that about anybody else. Treat yourself as your own best friend, you are special, just like your best friend is!

  2. Remind yourself about the things you like about yourself
    This is something which can be easily implemented into your daily routine. After you read this blog post, list 3 things you love about yourself. This can be done every morning, evening or any time you are feeling unconfident. Injecting a syrup of self-love can make you feel so much better about yourself!

  3. Accept your flaws
    Nobody is perfect. There will always be something you don’t like about yourself, or perhaps you’re still fixated on that mistake you made the other day. These flaws and mistakes make you imperfectly perfect. You are perfect in your own way, so love yourself for who you are and embrace your flaws. It what makes you, you! What you don’t like about yourself, someone else will love about you. Everyone has flaws, we are just more susceptible to being aware and critical of our own.

Having self-confidence can be a tricky hurdle to tackle, but it’s important to focus on improving in as this will benefit your overall wellbeing! Love yourself for who you are! I hope these tips help you and I hope you’ve enjoyed reading!

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Lots of love,
Somewhat Perfect xxx